February 21, 2018
Modern motherhood comes with an abundance of joy...and information! For one thing, we have access to seemingly unlimited resources and knowledge on how to mother “best." It seems that everyone has an opinion on how best to raise children. We are overwhelmed with choices on which bed to choose, which high chair, which feeding method, which birth method. With answers close at hand online, it doesn’t take much time to question your intuition. Don’t forget that your mommy intuition is almost a sixth sense! Mothers have relied on their intuition for millennia to protect and nourish their babies. We can still tap into that resource. Many times, having good information and tools can help us tap into that mother’s intuition more readily. I’m here to remind you not to discount your own motherly wisdom. I know personally how easy it is to second-guess my own decisions when it comes to parenting and motherhood, so today I’m sharing three tips that have helped me trust my mommy intuition:
Treat yourself as you would a friend. Many times when I have a parenting question, instead of looking for outside advice, I have looked inward and found wisdom. “What would I tell a friend if she asked this question or were faced with this choice?” Mamas, this is where confidence comes from: it comes from having faith in yourself and recognizing that YOU know the absolute best for your child’s needs.