Adoption:  Bonding through Connection

Attachment Parenting has been in the news recently, but in reality it is the most basic and oldest “style” of parenting in the world. In current culture, “Attachment Parenting” has been promoted in the adoption community by adoption specialists for years. Adoption specialists have promoted baby and child wearing to help foster attachment/bonding for the new parent and the new child. There is a trust element that is developed when a child is making physical contact with the parent, being able to hear the heartbeat of the person, and being able to have that security as they also observe and interact during the day. Our son, Samuel, came into our home when we adopted him from Ethiopia at almost four-years-old. He was large for his age, but once we started using our Ergobaby Carrier, his weight was distributed easily. He loved being in there. Our adoption specialist also was happy we were giving a child of his age so much time in a carrier. Adopted children, even past the age of toddlerhood and infancy, need attention that is often thought of for very young children or babies. This is a normal and healthy part of the attachment process for many adopted children. Whether you adopt a child in infancy or after, there is a bonding period that needs to happen. You both are strangers to each other, and that is a normal feeling to have. Trauma has occurred, which is a heartbreaking and unavoidable part of adoption.  With the trauma comes introductions to new people and there is a need to build a trusting relationship with one another. There are also stages of getting to know even a biological child that take place during newborn, infant, and toddler phases of life. I feel like we went through all of that with Samuel at a much quicker pace. Having Samuel in the carrier was also helpful to our routine. He would sometimes fall asleep for naps, and I would go about my work for the day. I would be able to stop at any time and just bow my head down to smell his neck and realize he still has the baby smell I remembered my biological son having when I would hold him for his naps as an infant. I was able to go through a grieving process of not knowing my child when he was an infant, but in those moments I saw what his mother saw, and it made me realize how many people love this child and are helping raise him up into the man he is supposed to be. In those moments, bonding started to happen. I noticed his attachment to me, and the importance of physical touch in relation to attachment. Samuel was able to recognize the difference between his mother (his second mother) and strangers. I was the one who provided him comfort. It was my heartbeat he listened to as he slept. We would start using the back pack function to go out together on walks and he would point things out so we could discuss them. We were able to use the pack in a playful aspect as a backpack this way. Samuel would sometimes prefer being on my back and he, with great excitement, would tell us that the women in Ethiopia would carry their babies the same way. So, we had the added bonus of reminding him of something pleasant from home. There are so many ways to build a strong attachment with an adopted child, but I firmly believe the idea of touch and physical connectedness by baby/childwearing is extremely helpful to adoptive parents.

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Emotional Benefits of Getting Outside

Spending time in nature with your baby can strengthen the bond between you. The simple act of holding your baby close, feeling their warmth, and sharing new experiences together can create strong emotional connections. It’s also a wonderful way to reduce stress and improve your mood. When my littles were extra fussy, I’d take a walk around the neighborhood. Even though I don't live in an area with trails and surrounded by nature, simply behind outside changed everything. A little vitamin D does wonders!  

Cognitive Development

Nature is a sensory wonderland for babies. The different sights, sounds, and smells can stimulate your baby’s senses and promote cognitive development. Watching leaves rustle, hearing birds chirp, and feeling the texture of a tree bark can all contribute to their learning and development.

All About Baby Carriers for Nature Adventures

Choosing the Right Baby Carrier

When it comes to selecting the best baby carrier for summer adventures, there are several options to consider. 

Types of Baby Carriers:

  • Wraps: Perfect for newborns, providing a snug and secure fit.
  • Slings: Ideal for quick and easy use, offering good ventilation.
  • Soft Structured Carriers: Versatile and comfortable for both parent and baby, suitable for longer trips. 

Discover which baby carrier is right for you!

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Factors to Consider:

  • Baby’s Age and Weight: Ensure the carrier is appropriate for your baby’s size and weight. For example, Ergobaby’s Embrace Newborn Carrier is perfect for the fourth trimester where baby is small and you’re looking for an easy way to stay close. As they grow, you’ll want to upgrade to an all-position carrier that’s meant for growing babies.
  • Parent’s Comfort and Ergonomics: Look for carriers with padded shoulder straps and lumbar support if you’re planning on longer outings.
  • Ease of Use: Choose a carrier that is easy to put on and take off.
  • Climate and Breathability: Opt for carriers made of breathable fabrics to keep you and your baby cool in hot weather.

Safety Tips:

  • Proper Positioning: Ensure your baby is seated correctly, with their legs in an "M" position and their head should be close enough to kiss.
  • Checking for Wear and Tear: Regularly inspect your carrier for any signs of damage.
  • Ensuring Adequate Support: Make sure the carrier provides proper support for your baby’s head and neck.

Exploring Nature with a Baby Carrier 

Ideal Spots for a Nature Walk with Baby

  • Parks and Gardens: Great for leisurely walks and picnics.
  • Nature Trails and Forests: Perfect for more adventurous outings.
  • Beaches and Lakesides: Wonderful for enjoying the water and sand, with the right carrier.

Activity Ideas

  • Hiking: Enjoy a scenic hike with a hiking baby carrier that offers support and storage.
  • Bird Watching: Use your carrier to keep your baby close while you explore and observe wildlife.
  • Picnics: A carrier can free up your hands, making it easier to carry picnic supplies.
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Advantages of Using Strollers for Nature Adventures 

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While baby carriers are fantastic for mobility and closeness, depending on the adventure of choice you might want to be a stroller along too.

There are a LOT of baby stroller options on the market. So we understand how confusing it can be to choose the one that’s right for your family. Not only are there a variety of brands, but a variety of strollers that serve different purposes.

There are a few types of strollers on the market: 

  • Full-sized stroller: This is typically the stroller parents thing of buying for all its versatility.
  • Lightweight or umbrella stroller:These compact strollers are perfect for on-the-go adventures.
  • Jogging stroller: Designed for parents who want to combine fitness with outdoor adventures.
  • Double stroller: Designed for parents with multiple kids, especially twins.
  • Car seat carrier: These strollers connect to a specific car seat. We don't typically recommend these as they can be unsafe for baby and uncomfortable for parents who are pushing.

Learn more about the types of strollers and which one would be best for you.

Benefits of Bringing a Stroller

  • Storage Space for Gear: Ample room for carrying all your essentials like a diaper bag, beach toys and more.
  • Shade and Weather Protection: Built-in canopies to shield your baby from the sun when they are lounging.
  •  Options: If you have more than one kid, you can stroll with one and carry the other. Or, if you’re getting warm or your little one is getting fussy, you can switch up their position from stroller to carrier or vice versa.

Safety Tips for Strollers

  • Ensure your stroller is in good working condition. Make sure buckles are still buckling and that there are no rips or holes that could compromise your baby’s safety.
  • Use sunshades or bug nets to protect your little one’s skin.
  • Securing the baby properly: always buckle up your baby for safety even if you think they are old enough to go without the buckle.

Combining Baby Carriers and Strollers

For the ultimate flexibility, consider using both a baby carrier and a stroller on your outings.

Combining both options allows you to adapt to different situations. Use the carrier for more rugged trails and switch to the stroller for smoother paths or when your baby needs a nap.

Transition Tips

  • Smooth Transitions: Plan stops where you can easily switch from carrier to stroller.
  • Pack Light: Only bring essentials to make transitions easier.

Tips for a Successful Adventure

Planning Ahead

  • Route Planning: Choose baby-friendly trails and parks. Check local mom groups or outdoor groups and get recommendations for the best outings for kids.
  • Check Weather Conditions: Avoid extreme heat or unpredictable weather. Even with our most breathable carriers, when it’s hot, it’s hot. And having two bodies against each other in the heat will be naturally hot and sticky already.
  • Packing Checklist: Include diapers, snacks, water, sunscreen, and a first-aid kit. These all-position carriers have storage pockets where you can fit some of the items easily!
  • Stay Hydrated and Nourished: Pack healthy snacks to keep energy levels up and bring plenty of water for both you and baby.

Summer adventures with your baby are a wonderful way to create lasting memories and enjoy the beauty of nature together. From baby carriers to strollers, Ergobaby products are designed to provide comfort and ease for both you and your little one. So, gear up, get outside, and explore the world with your baby by your side.

Ready to embark on your own summer adventures? Check out Ergobaby’s range of baby carriers and strollers to find the perfect match for your family’s needs. Visit our website today and start planning your next outdoor excursion!